I know that it is not easy for my son to be in a swimming class. I feel that it's too much pressure on him.
During the first day, he was excited...in fact, too excited that he woke up as early as 5:00AM because he was looking forward to his first encounter with the swimming coach & other members of the Milo Swimming Clinic. But at the end of the first session, I noticed that he was quiet while in the car until we reached our house. I could trace some frustration on his face. When I asked him what was wrong, he told me that he felt bad & he knew that he wouldn't learn how to swim. "You see, Mama, I couldn't cross the pool as fast as the others...I always sink, kaya they were laughing at me! Nakakainis!" After hearing this, I gave him all the encouraging words I could think of at that very moment because I knew it was an indication of a beginning frustration! I don't want him to feel & think that he is a loser. He is not!!!I nagged him to continue, anyway it was just his first day. And it was not only him who had a not so good performance during the first day (of course, what do you expect from a novice? the reason why they were there was to learn and not to show off!) I stressed to my son that he should have the determination to learn & become a good swimmer.
So on the 2nd day, he told me that when he was asked to float on his back, do the flutter kicks & cross the pool, he thought about what I told him : determination! So what he did was he told himself (with eyes closed) "I can do this!" several times until he hit the other side of the pool! He was so happy (inspite of the occasional "sinking strokes") because he made it! Keep it up, son!

